Monday, October 15, 2012

Resolve to treat everyone with love


James 2: 1, 8, 9 and 13:  My brothers and sisters, believers in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ must not show favoritism.  If you really keep the royal law found in Scripture, “Love your neighbor as yourself,” you are doing right. But if you show favoritism, you sin and are convicted by the law as lawbreakers.  Judgment without mercy will be shown to anyone who has not been merciful.  Mercy triumphs over judgment.

Be compassionate. That’s the first thing we need to do in dealing with other people. James speaks of God’s royal law in verse 8. It is the law to love your neighbour as yourself. James also tells us in verse 13 that mercy triumphs over judgment. What James is saying here is that love and mercy are the godly ways in which we ought to treat people. Our attitude ought to be one of compassion. It ought to be one of love. It ought to be one of mercy. Our hearts ought to be soft towards other people.

Consider two things:
The first is to search our hearts for attitudes that don’t belong there — attitudes of favouritism, prejudice, of superiority or of bullying. If we find these attitudes, repent of them. Ask God to take them out of your heart. Ask God to replace them with attitudes of love, compassion and empathy.

The second is to search our minds for people we have not treated right.  Let’s ask God to show us who those people are.  God will reveal it to us.  They may be people you work with, or people you live with. They may be your neighbours, or some of your friends, or some of your relatives or a family member, or even a spouse or a child.  We have to resolve to treat them with love, compassion, forgiveness and respect in future.

We may even need to ask someone to forgive us for treating them poorly, or cruelly, in the past. Resolve today to treat everyone with practical love, as you would want to be treated yourself.
If we get our own hearts right and begin to treat everyone else according to God’s royal law of neighbourly love, we will make others feel loved.  And everyone needs to feel loved!
May God help us to do just that.

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